Why Good Guys Get Their Hearts Broken

Valentine's Day has come and gone,
but I just thought we could discuss
some relationship truths to ensure
you're not alone next Valentine, and
if you weren't this year, to ensure
you don't lose your partner.
I've been seeing posts on Facebook
and tweets on Twitter asking
questions about why the good guys
often get their hearts broken. I may
have some of the answers here;
answers which may ensure you are
not alone next Valentine.
I've tried being a 'bad boy' in girl-
issues, and as much as that was
strange to me, it worked like magic.
Have you ever wondered why a good
girl despite her hatred for smoking
and alcohol still dates a guy who
drinks? The reason is, as much as she
hates those habits, she enjoys the
fun that comes with it. Guys who
drink always have causes to hang
out, and maybe a couple of times,
the girl will be there too. Girls like
having fun, religious or not. Take her
to the beach, let her hang out with
you and your friends in a bar, take
her to go watch a movie; they just
love to have fun, and sadly most
good guys don't measure up in the
fun department. Don't get me wrong
here, I'm not saying you're bad
because you drink, and you're not
because you don't.
Good guys make the mistake of
caring too much and girls don't like
it when you care too much; it makes
them uncomfortable. You want to
show that you care and so you call
every hour, if she hasn't complained
yet, believe me; she's got a high
tolerance level. Calling too often put
girls off, and it's a mistake most good
guys make. Don't blame them,
there's no other person; it's only
you, girl, and they call every time
they miss you. It should be a good
thing, but as it turns out, girls don't
like it. See another reason why she
left?
Also, most good guys let girls have
their way too easily. You believe
you're doing that because you love
her, and you deny yourself most
times because you are in love. The
bad thing is it only makes you look
weak, and girls don't wanna be with
a weak guy. You gotta get angry
when you should, ignore her call
when she deserves it. You gotta
always remind her you're the man.
S*x is an issue in relationships. Many
good guys won't ask for it except the
girl freely gives. Even when they
make moves and the girl pretends to
be angry, they just let go, and the
girl thinks to herself, "what a fool I'm
dating!" You don't have to be a bad
guy to give it to your girlfriend
anyway she wants it…okay; I should
stop talking about this. My point
here is you have to understand who
your partner is and relate
accordingly. If you are the good guy
who wouldn't have pre-marital s*x,
you have no business dating a girl
who would.
There is also one thing; as bad as it is
to cheat on your partner, girls seem
to get a kick out of knowing there is
possible rivalry. They live every day
to impress you because they know
there's always a girl close enough
already to take their place once they
misbehave, even if it's clear you
have nothing going with those close
girls. But when a girl never had to
ask who a girl who just called you is
or what you want with someone, she
begins to wonder if she's not the
cheapest girl around to have settled
for you.
Bad boys are hopeless romantics.
You should learn how too. They
know when to do what and when to
stop. That's their charm, and that's
their edge over you.