love your man / woman? Here are a
few things that show that you're just
playing around:
1. Little things annoy you
If you always get unnecessarily
agitated about a shirt he wears or
some extra weight he gained or the
way he sings in the car, then you
don't love him. When you really love
someone, those things are funny, or
at the very least tolerable. But if
there's no real connection there, the
little flaws irritate you.
2. You don't talk and you don't care
If you don't hear from him for two
days, and you're not bothered, then
there's a serious problem. Wanting
to talk to your man, is a sure sign of
true love. If you couldn't care less,
then you're not in love.
3. You're constantly comparing your
relationship to others
When you're really in love, you don't
care what everyone else is doing.
You're happy with what you have.
Those differences in your
relationship don't feel like a
problem. But, when you know you're
not meant to be with a guy, you
constantly try to find something
wrong with your relationship.
4. When going out, you still dress
with other men in mind.
If you're daydreaming about
meeting handsome guys and
dressing with that goal in mind, it
means you wish you were single.
That shows that you're not really
committed to your man.
5. He's not the one you run to
When you're upset about
something, crying to your man
seems like the obvious thing to do.
But if you never confide in your guy,
then you don't really care about him.
If you really wanted to be close, he'd
be the one you go to when you need
a sympathetic ear.
6. The image of you two standing at
the altar gives you anxiety
If you can't picture the two of you
gazing into each other's eyes
happily on your wedding day, then
you're not meant to be. If you don't
smile at the thought of being his
wife, then you're just playing
around.
7. You're managing
If there are serious issues militating
against your relationship that you
know can't be resolved but you're
still seeing the guy, then it's
obviously a dead end. If he's of a
different religion from you and you
know you can only marry a man of
the same religion, then you're going
nowhere. You're only still with him
because you're avoiding the
question: what next?
8.You're disrespectful to each other
If you regularly insult your man,
even in front of others, it's a sign
that you don't really care about him.
You're lashing out at him because
you know being with him is a waste
of time.
9. You feel a little guilty around his
family
Deep down you know you won't be
around forever, and they're
expecting you to be a daughter-in-
law and the mother of their
grandchildren someday. When
you're around the family of a man
you don't want to be with, it's hard
to suppress the guilt.
10. You're still not sure if you like
him
Basically, you opened this article!
That's not a good sign. When you
know you're serious about someone,
you just know. If you're still
questioning your feelings, then
you're not meant to be.
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